Download or read book Diary of a High Maintenance Woman written by Beth Elias and published by Xlibris Corporation. This book was released on 2002 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book details my personal journey through "relationship hell" and the ten lessons I learned while on the lengthy trip. Ladies, think of me as the one friend who will even tell you the stuff you don't really want to hear. Guys, think of me as that one friend you seek when you must have a woman's opinion. I am about to share my life secrets with you, to give you my pure chick perspective. I'm not an expert, and there's no magic formula for relationship success. I'm sharing my experiences to make you stop and think! So dive in and avoid learning these lessons THE HARD WAY! Lesson #1: Men & women really ARE from different planets! Newsflash no one is going to think, react, or behave just like you. I share the "big three" ways in which men and women are particularly different, and five rules each for guys and girls to use to make life with your partner easier! Lesson #2: I AM a high maintenance woman and that's OK! Finally a real definition for the code name "high maintenance"! Find out why I'm high maintenance, how to determine if you are, and why it can be a positive thing! Lesson #3: Live in the reality, NOT the fantasy! Folks, you can see anything you want if you look hard enough. Learn how to face the reality of what your relationship "truly is" and how to avoid getting stuck in the potential of what it "could be". Lesson #4: Beware of the M.O.D.! The Master of Deception. He's out there. He lies. He's really good at it! He'll say or do anything to get what he wants. Learn ten things to identify someone operating in M.O.D. mode and don't let this happen to you! Lesson #5: Sex ¹ Love! It's a jagged little pill to swallow, but men and women view sex quite differently. Learn how I changed my entire perspective and was finally able to enjoy the best sex of my life! I'll share four patterns that kept me from sexual freedom and give you some hints to keep you sex life smokin'! Lesson #6: Give Good "C"! Communication. Don't underestimate its power. Strong communication can make you an untouchable duo. Lack of communication can force you back to the land of singles! Men and women communicate differently, so learn how to speak a language your partner will understand. Lesson #7: Love DOESN'T conquer all! Darn those fairy tales and their blasted happy endings! It just takes more than love to make a relationship work. Don't let those fabulous feelings blind you to the practical factors that also must be intact to help your relationship last. Lesson #8: There is no "Y" in love! There is no logic, no reason, no analytical process to matters of the heart. The heart doesn't choose a partner because it makes logical sense. The heart chooses because it feels good. Share my turmoil as I discover the battle that ensues when the heart and the head disagree! Lesson #9: Breaking up is HARD to do! I've taken four trips to the breakup torture chamber. Join me in the Temple of Pain twice as the victim and twice as the punisher. Compare these dramatically different perspectives, and better understand key dynamics to help you exit as gracefully as possible! Lesson #10: Time is a 4-letter word! I hate the cliché, "Just give it time," but unfortunately, time is exactly what it takes to heal a broken heart. It should be right up there with the rest of those ugly four-letter words! I share my RP2R process for pain management and the things I've done to deal with the agony of time passing. Enjoy! b.